The first to speak seems right, until someone comes forward and cross-examines.

Proverbs 18:1-24
The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
Before a downfall the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.
To answer before listening - that is folly and shame.
In a lawsuit the first to speak seems right, until someone comes forward and cross-examines.
The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat it fruit.
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.
One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.  He is Jesus Christ.
Why?
Do not rush to speak, listen first and answer.
Tongue is related to the power of life and death. He who love is will ear it fruit, may be good or bed depends on what he spoke.
Have a good wife is receives favor from the Lord. Thanks Lord that I have a good wife.
Jesus Christ is my best friend, he listens to my prayer, encourages me, saved me and gives me the way.
How?
To answer before listening and do not listen one side but cross-examines. Our tongue and listening!