True love is more precious

Song of songs 1:12-2:7
The beloved like her lover resting between her breast, like a sachet of myrrh, like a cluster of henna blossom.
Lover like her eyes and beauty.
They plan on grass, rest on verdant.
Beloved like her lover as a lily of the valleys, Lover like his girl as a lily among thorns.
Beloved like her lover among the young men as an apple tree among the trees of the forest.
Beloved faint with love. But she want others don't arouse or awaken love until it so desires.
The bride's thoughts dwell on her lover with passionate longing(v3-6) thrilling at his voice(v8,9)
Why?
Between lovers they are a flower or like a sachet of myrrh, always attract each other.
An apple tree is valuable and sweet.
The love is desires can not be forced. the real love is desires from heart.
Red cosmic dye was made from henna. 'Engedi': a beautiful freshwater 'oasis' close to the barren shore of the dead sea.
How?
The love between couples or between we and the Lord is desires. It is not a rule or force to do it. It is inspired from our heart, she or he attracted us to love. True love is more precious than others.