What take the first place in my lives

Mark 10:17-31
Good teacher: No one is good except God alone, all of men are sinner.
keep the commandments is basic requirement to a man, but enter the kingdom of God have to leave what he has for the God and gospel.
How hard it is to enter the kingdom of God is for those who trust in riches.
With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.
Many who are first will be last, and the last first.-- Receive a hundred time as much in this present age and in the age to come depends on what he does in this moment.
Why?
The danger of wealth. this incident does not imply that all Chris's follower must become penniless. He is speaking to one man, not to all, and in this case the man's possessions kept him from becoming a disciple. Anything that takes first place in our lives - the place meant for God - must go. Jesus takes one steady look at the man and sees to the heart of his problem. 'Go sell' he says and 'Come, follow me.'
How?
What takes the first place in my lives? Is for God? career? food? family? honor myself? selfish mind? Let all of my selfish go.