Amnon became so obsessed with his sister Tamar

2 Samuel 13:1-22
Amnon became so obsessed(痴迷) with his sister Tamar that he made himself ill.
Amnon raped her sister Tamar in a dirty way.
Amnon pretended ill and asked his father David let Tamar prepare food for him.
Faced with the appalling rape of his daughter Tarmar by her half-brother Amnon. David, though angry, does nothing at all.
Why?
David married too many wives and has too many sons and daughters, so he does not have the chance to give them a good education. Even he didn't know how is his son behavior.
David makes this mistake for he listened to his son's request without confirm how about the real situation.
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從此恨進入大衛的家。
你可以求王，…
大衛可以向神求，但是他有權柄，所以不倚靠神。
同樣暗嫩可求王，但是因他有資源，有能力，就照自己方式做。因為這是自己的私慾，即使用犯罪的方法。我想要怎樣就怎樣！
我們常常沒辦法時才求神。
用犯罪方法得到後，卻不喜悅，不滿足。反而是更多的恨。只有從神而來的才有喜樂滿足。因此以後來的是咒詛！神給我們恩典，權柄等是要我們去造就別人。
暗嫩只是要眼前的慾望所蒙蔽。耶穌說荊棘夾住，就是人的慾望。種子在好土，神的道在我們心中的好土，得成長。以掃是如此看重紅豆湯，兩個半支派喜歡約旦河東之地。
只有從神而來的才是祝福與喜樂，憑私慾做的沒有喜樂，只有苦楚，甚至殺身之禍。
How?
Obsess anyone would make him ill, instead we should focus on the Lord always.